Casting rumors intensified, with Ms. Rici, known as Yung Joc 's assistant and former mistress, and Waka Flocka Flame 's mom and manager Deb Antney reportedly joining the cast.
Subsequent seasons expanded to include DJs and radio personalities , stylists , video vixens , glamour models , groupies and socialites. The show has a sprawling supporting cast , consisting mostly of men in the industry, who in most cases share the same amount of screen time and storyline focus as the show's leads. During the season's reunion special, K. Traci and Drew were fired from the show,  and season three saw the addition of Waka Flocka Flame , his long time girlfriend Tammy Rivera and his mother Deb Antney. Waka and Tammy eloped during filming. Shay Johnson filmed scenes for the season but after a violent altercation during filming,   in which she cracked a bottle over a woman's face in a night club brawl, she was removed from the cast and her scenes were left on the cutting room floor.
The show's outrageous storylines and scandals throughout season three, particularly Mimi and Nikko's sex tape , Benzino 's non-fatal shooting and Joseline and Stevie's allegedly drug-addled behavior at the reunion, drew the highest ratings in the franchise's history and made its cast members tabloid fixtures. The fallout from the violence of season three's reunion, in which Stevie and Joseline interrupted filming and got into a brawl with Benzino and Althea onstage,  affected season four's casting process.
Benzino and Althea were removed from the cast after making death threats   and Tammy, who was also attacked by Joseline during taping, announced that she and Waka were leaving the show to star in their own spin-off show Meet The Flockas. PreMadonna, an entrepreneur known for her waist trainer company, appeared in a supporting role for two episodes. Towards the end of the season, Tammy Rivera returned for three episodes in a supporting role. After four seasons, Erica Dixon quit the series, calling it "mentally and physically draining". Michelle, who returned from the fourth episode onwards.
Other new cast members included Grammy Award -winning songwriter D.
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Smith, who became the first openly transgender castmate in the show's history, singer Betty Idol, Mimi 's girlfriend Chris Gould, who would reveal his identity as a trans man in an episode near the end of season, Lyfe Jennings , Rasheeda's mother Shirleen Harvell, Kirk's daughter Kelsie Frost, radio personality J-Nicks and stripper Amber Priddy.
One of season five's leading storylines was Joseline and Tommie's intense feud, which culminated in an off-camera incident in which Tommie attempted to run down Joseline with her car. After appearing infrequently throughout the season and barely interacting with the cast, K. Michelle confirmed shortly after taping that she had again quit the show.
Despite pending legal issues relating to her incident with Joseline, season six saw Tommie promoted to the main cast. One of the season's leading storylines involved Rasheeda discovering that her husband Kirk had been unfaithful and had a secret baby with stripper Jasmine Washington. Jasmine became part of the show's cast, along with her lovers Rod Bullock and Keanna Arnold, who she is involved in a polyamorous relationship with. Tammy Rivera left the cast to star in her own spin-off Meet the Flockas with Waka,  but would make two guest appearances throughout the season.
After a two-year absence, Erica Dixon returned as a supporting cast member for two episodes. During filming, Jessica Dime publicly criticised Mona Scott-Young for passing on a proposed wedding special starring her and Shawne. On October 18, , Tommie was arrested for allegedly attacking her daughter at her high school while heavily intoxicated. Spice , Scrapp DeLeon and Yung Joc would be promoted to the main cast for season eight, after appearing in previous seasons as supporting cast members. On March 12, , Stevie J tweeted "Not returning for a full season. No need".
The dysfunctional love triangle between Stevie J , Mimi Faust and Joseline Hernandez has been the focal point of the show since its inception and its most widely publicised storyline, with the "main chick vs side chick" rivalry being recreated and explored with other cast members on the show and in the franchise. Many of the show's cast members come from broken homes, which has led to criticism by those who find the show exploitive.
Stevie and Mimi were both abandoned by their mothers at an early age,  in Mimi's case, she was abandoned at the age of 13 for Scientology. Several of the show's female cast members have worked as strippers out of financial desperation, with music being depicted as an escape from that lifestyle.
The show has explored many controversial issues over the seasons. In an early episode, Joseline discovers she is pregnant and decides to have an abortion. Michelle reveals her experience with domestic violence. Infidelity is also a major theme on the show, the second season controversially depicts Kirk Frost cheating on his wife Rasheeda on camera,  years later he would father a child outside of their marriage with co-star Jasmine Washington. Many of the female cast members identify as bisexual , lesbian or sexually fluid , and the show is one of the few television shows to explore LGBT issues from a black perspective.
Season five features two trans cast members, D. Smith and Chris Gould, and several episodes featured public service announcements aimed to help viewers struggling with their gender identity. One petition described the show as "another beautifully-blinged jewel of commercial exploitation" and compared it to the crack epidemic of the s in its potentially damaging and long-lasting impact on African-American culture. Despite the criticism, the franchise has dominated the ratings since its inception, and has been described as "riveting",  "addictive"  "bawdy and hilarious"  and a " guilty pleasure ".
In , Mimi Faust admitted that her "leaked" sex tape storyline was staged from the very beginning. After its premiere, the show's audience grew substantially over the season. The show's finale garnered 5. Joseline Hernandez appears in the first season in a recurring role as Michelle, a stripper. In the second episode, Lenny Kravitz 's character is seen watching a scene of the show featuring Mimi Faust and Stevie J.
In a later scene in the same episode, Jessica Dime makes a cameo appearance as a stripper. While I'm a positive girl who likes to put an optimistic spin on things, I'll admit that the first few encounters between my boyfriend and my ex were, understandably, a little awkward.
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There was definitely some chest-puffing on both sides, and the conversation was about as strategic and subtle as navigating a minefield while blindfolded. But eventually both men started to breathe normally, and one day they got together and had a conversation agreeing on a mutual desire to bring the girls and myself nothing but happiness. I'm not going to claim that's a typical situation, but it was one that I demanded; my kids deserve peace, and that doesn't arise from two sides pointing canons at each other.
Ultimately, I wasn't going to have anyone in my life who didn't understand or support that. And I think that's probably what I've learned the most about dating with children: In the midst of that uncertain whirlwind, figure out what your priorities are, and stick to them. Let them anchor you to the soil, and hold fast when it feels like you might get swept away. Despite my wish for a personal life, my children have always remained my number one priority, and I refuse to loosen my grip on that, to compromise their emotional security so I can meet my own or someone else's selfish needs.
I want them to know that we all have the power to bring what we want into our lives and remove what we don't. To see that it's feasible for a mother and father to separate while still supporting each other, and to find new relationships without obliterating what they once had. I want them to experience firsthand that despite what TV shows and movies tell us, a boyfriend and an ex-husband, or a girlfriend and an ex-wife can actually get along with each other because above all they want peace for the children caught in the middle.
I need them to know that it's possible to find love again when it seems like your entire world has fallen apart. Because one day they're going to get their hearts broken too; a time will come when they're disillusioned by love, and I need them to know that they can rise from those ashes, shake it off, and live again like I did.
Obviously, everything isn't perfect. My kids don't need a new dad, my boyfriend worries about stepping on toes, and it's still important for the girls to have the majority of their time spent either just with me, or with me and their father together. Our original family unit needs respecting, as does my own single parent relationship with my daughters; it's necessary for them to know that I'm theirs first, and for them to see that being single is empowering.
They also have to learn through me that relationships do not complete you, and that we are all the engineers of our own happiness. But with lots of honest communication, teamwork and a real craving for calm waters, dating while divorcing with young kids is something that I'm fairly successfully doing. It's been a lot of trial and error of course, and my romantic life is definitely not the same as it would be if I were childless; I have serious limits on the time and energy mental, emotional, and physical that I'll devote to it. But despite that, it's worth it.
Not because I need to be in a relationship, or get married again, or press 'reset' on the last several years of my life, but because I'm entirely human, and at the end of the day it's nice to choose who you want to be sharing a blanket and a glass of wine with. There's just something that feels right about honoring my truth, and embracing that imperfect, colorful, kaleidoscopic version of myself with all her unique, contradictory angles. While I'm haunted daily by all the what-ifs, the endless potential ways my children could be further hurt or disappointed by my choice to date, I can't live in fear.
Those worries might always shadow me, regardless of the position of the sun; the most I can do is show the girls that progress isn't made by pretending you're not afraid. Rather, it's found through striding out your door and facing those fears, and then moving forward despite them. Sydney Hutt is a something English major and future teacher, as well as a single mother of identical twin girls. She writes about her experiences as a young mom and divorcee on her blog mysoulajar. The holidays are quickly on their way, and while there are tons of ways to celebrate, you should feel free to get a little creative with it and make your own traditions there's no law requiring you to dress everyone in matching red velvet jumpers to sit on Santa's lap.
So instead of battling between getting the perfect picture and your baby's natural urge to wiggle, harness the power of those inevitable Hallmark moments—the first giggle, the budding personality, the two-toothed grin—to make your December super special. Decorating the tree is a beloved tradition, and having a little one is all the more reason to get into the spirit of it.
Get the baby—and the rest of the family—involved in the fun by letting everyone color or paint on an unbreakable, homemade ornament and hang them towards the bottom of the tree. And sure, your infant may not create any masterpieces at this age, but not only will the precious family heirlooms stay higher up read: away from tiny hands , you'll also be creating keepsakes to build on for years to come. Connecting your children to the spirit of the season is an important part of teaching them what it's all about, but it's not always so easy to do through books and stories alone.
Instead, offer them the chance to live it out! Whether you celebrate Hanukkah, Christmas or another significant holiday, playing pretend is the ideal way to teach and have fun along the way for everyone in the family. Use a kid-friendly nativity book as a guide or make your own menorah as you explore the story of the oil that burned for 8 nights—whatever your religion, there's an important tale to tell. There is joy in receiving physical mail and holiday cards are a wonderful way to make your loved ones feel special. But don't stop there!
Record a video greeting to send to your nearest and dearest to keep even the most far-away relatives feel like they're right there with you. Everyone will love seeing the baby's latest milestones in live-action, and it's a great way to spread the season's warmest greetings. Making and maintaining a baby book is a fabulous idea, but sometimes keeping it up-to-date gets lost in the shuffle of parenthood. Use the holiday season as a time to reconnect with all those beloved memories for your kiddo by starting an annual time capsule box: Each year, have all members of the family add one item of their choosing or your choosing, depending on age to the box and label it with a little note.
Things can range from a favorite holiday-themed blanket or toy to something they no longer need but aren't ready to throw away. Nothing says "cozy" like a yummy-smelling kitchen filled with laughter. While your tot may still be too small to really help in the kitchen, it's never too early to kickstart their love of cooking. Pick a recipe you'll make every year and get them "involved" with a spoon and an empty mixing bowl. You'll get to enjoy the fruits of your labor together and it'll help encourage them to cook with you more year-round, too.
We all know that as babies grow up—independence is a priority, no matter how ready for it we really are.
This year, give them the gift of being in charge. By allowing your little one to eat what they want, wear what they pick a sparkly tutu? No problem. An adorable Christmas cape? Looking back now, 11 years later, falling in love was so easy. We were attracted to each other, we were both single, we didn't have many serious responsibilities yet, and we had plenty of time. Time to get to know one another and how to care for each other.
Time to adventure together and learn who we were both as a couple and as individuals, too. We now have seven years of marriage under our belts and six years of parenthood. Every day we're learning how to be a stronger team throughout the curveballs life and our kids throw at us.
Like a toddler who could most likely climb to the top of the Empire State Building without ropes, Free Solo style. Or the bed wetting. Or the crib escaping. Or all the childcare puzzle pieces. Or the beauty and pain of watching our kids need us less as they become more independent. Or the daily doses of attitudes, whining fits, and meltdowns—all from three children who we created ourselves.
These curveballs can feel like a lot. Some days are so exhausting, I could fall asleep the second you walk through the door. And some days are so trying, I could drive off into the sunset the second you walk through the door. I would come back, I promise. These years that we've been raising young children together have felt heavy because they're full. Full of twists and turns, of guilt and exhaustion, of happiness and growth.
They've felt heavy because of the weight. The weight of the worries on our minds, the anxiety in our hearts, the stress on our bodies. Like making a cup of my favorite tea and delivering it to me on the couch. Giving me a back rub when I complain about my aches. Watching the movies I pick out over and over again without complaining. Listening to me vent without looking at your phone or brushing my worries off to move onto something else. Sitting with me when I need to cry. Reassuring me when I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing.
The mornings that start with you delivering me a cup of coffee in bed before you head to work are the BEST. It may seem like a small act of love, but it feels like a big, giant hug from you. And I love getting those from you, too. You're the sole weekend diaper changer because you're at work during most of the weekday changes. You're the laundry master, the middle-of-the-night potty helper, the toy assembler, the hair washer and consequently, the soap-getter-out-of-the-eyer. All the little things that you do for me, for us, add up to a huge pile of gratefulness, respect, validation and appreciation.
They show me—like I aim to show you by the way I care for you—that you see me as a human. Not just the mother of your children. Not just the family chef. Not just the breastfeeder. Not just the chauffeur. Not just the magic maker, boo-boo healer, or errand-runner. You see that woman you fell in love with 11 years ago.
The woman I've grown into. The woman I'm aspiring to be; always aiming to better myself. You notice the effort I'm putting in and you look me in the eyes to let me know you're proud. You see me trying to dig out from under all this motherhood and find myself again. Did I get lost? I'm not sure exactly. I mostly think I've just evolved. Am evolving. But I do think I've lost touch with myself a little along the way, and you're always encouraging me to find my way back.
Thank you for the little stuff, the big stuff.
The invisible stuff, the grandeur stuff. The simple stuff, the complicated stuff.
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